Friday

By the Seashore...

 This past summer, Matthew and Jenny Mead came down to visit me and we took to one of the beautiful beaches in my area to shoot a sea-inspired story for the current issue of the Holiday with Matthew Mead series,  Recycled Style.


 We all schlepped bundles of props down a verrrryyy long boardwalk, amidst the incessant biting of some very hungry mosquitoes.

 It was all worth it in the end, as Matthew and Jenny got some gorgeous shots, resulting in an even more gorgeous story that I had the pleasure of writing.


I snapped all of these behind-the-scenes photos, including some impromptu acrobatics from my energetic girl:



 Sophie brought a good friend along, and she is also featured in the story. 

 

Hermit crabs were plentiful, albeit a bit camera shy...


Oh, how I love this girl:



Thursday

Sophie's 12th Birthday

 As my not-so-little- anymore girl turned 12, I decided to embrace the fact that she still wanted me to plan and execute a "pretty" party for her and her friends. I kept it simple, with old stand-bys like the shopping game, a homemade cake, and pound cake dipped in melted candy-coating. I trolled Pinterest for ideas, and found the cake idea, whcih was quite easy to do. I simply baked a cupcake along with the cake, inserted it into an ice cream cone, frosted it, and set it upside down atop melted chocolate chips. It was a hit with her friends, and now that they are getting older, they actually ate most of it up. Because this year's Christmas concert season saw her school presenting a sweet version of The Nutcracker, I used cupcake toppers in that very theme for the cake bites.


 Sophie and I set up a photo booth in her room and filled a basket with felt props: some which we made using small dowels and others that I ordered via various Etsy shops.

Speaking of The Nutcracker, here is my little ballerina performing in her Christmas concert:


Not sure where she gets her flexibility!

Saturday

Lightening Things Up!


 (Graduation time: I promise I wasn't his date!)

 So to say it's been awhile would be putting it mildly and it's always boring to go on about that, so let's move on, shall we? It is crazy to think it is mid-summer already and I have managed to get through my eldest son's graduation from high school, helped write TWO magazines (watch for news about our upcoming Matthew Mead Halloween and Holiday issues), and a myriad of other milestones and projects (including renovating our basement family room and also renovating a down-on-its-luck and not-yet-finished home across town that I will share about when it is complete). With the purchase of a new pool heater, we have confirmed to ourselves that we are staying put in our home for another couple of years, at least, and we have enjoyed beating the very welcome heat in it nearly every day--a welcome change from previous summers when the water was too chilly to dip a toe in for more than a few weeks out of the summer.


Moving on, as I mentioned we renovated our basement and I had fun incorporating some more youthful style --which is perfect, as the room will mostly host my pre-teen daughter and her friends when they hang out at our place. We ripped carpet put from the stairs and the family room, replaced it with a gray weathered-wood-look laminate, and painted the room a fresh coat of warm white.
And then I added in some pieces and accessories like this (from my Olio board):
Actually, the map never made it into the room in the end (I did a fun gallery wall of all of the great photos and art I have collected over the past two years from Etsy), and I debated over wallpaper and other little details for a very long time, but I can finally say that it is finished. I still have not taken any proper photographs yet (there is only one proper window in the space, so it is not an easy room to "grab the light") but I will share the before and after photos soon.

(My little family...when I look at this, I can't believe how big my kids are getting!)

I hope everyone is having a GREAT summer. We have the good fortune to have our German exchange student visiting us for a three-week holiday, so we are heading out soon to view the Tall Ships at the Pictou Harbour.A trip to the beach is on the docket tomorrow. We are working away on crossing off the things on Sophie's summer list!

How are you planning to enjoy your weekend?


Tuesday

Our first real vacation...


 (warning: this post is to chronicle my memories of our trip, therefore it is very lengthy and likely a bit boring to anyone but me or those who are planning a similar vacation.)


Did I ever tell you I was planning a big March Break vacation? Probably not; I am not a big fan of letting the internet know when I will be out of town/my house is empty. Gavin DeBecker would tell you that is not the best way to honor your instincts. 

We have always been the ones to sit back and listen to others' vacation memories and scroll through Facebook photos of friends and family sunning themselves by crystal-clear, blue ocean waters. Every year, Sophie would come home before March Break and tell us of the number of children heading off to vacations in the sun. Often, it was shocking how many actually were going away somewhere exciting. Seriously, we are not sure how others manage to tuck enough away to fund annual trips that extended beyond camping or the occasional night at a hotel in a nearby town. 

This year, after much saving and planning, we decided we would take the plunge and go away for our first big vacation with the kids - before our eldest graduates and heads off to college next year. Because of the reality that this would probably be perhaps our only big vacation with the five of us, we decided a cruise would be the ideal way to see as many places as possible and be as stress-free as vacation planning can be. We got a great deal on a family cabin (a "Quint" cabin) aboard the Carnival Dream, and we booked our flights with the cruise line. We heard many reports that this wasn't the best route to go, but after price comparing with Travelocity and Kayak.com, we found they were giving us a better deal - one which included all transfers from the airport to the hotel (which was also included in the rate) and the ship.

I poured over online descriptions of excursions, tempted of course by dolphin encounters, an idyllic afternoon spent at The Blue Lagoon, and snorkeling excursions on glass-bottomed boats. In the end, we decided to forgo big ticket excursions and head out and explore on our own (and save money!).

We headed out on the Friday before March Break and had a brief stop-over in Toronto. As we flew into Orlando, I was a bit disappointed to see that it was dark outside (8pm). In my naivete, I thought that because it felt like summer, it would be light outside, like summer. Our shuttle took us to the Marriott Orlando Airport Hotel where we happily dropped our bags (they gave us two BIG rooms!) and ordered Chinese take-out. 


After devouring the feast, we headed down to the indoor-outdoor pool, separated only by clear flaps to swim through. The water was gloriously like bath water (literally!) and after a day spent on airplanes, the warm water felt wonderful and soothing. The next morning we enjoyed a delicious, huge breakfast buffet and swam in the pool until it was time to be picked up by the Carnival shuttle. 


Before we headed out though, we did manage to see a "real live" alligator along the bank of the water that bordered the hotel grounds. With signs that said Do Not Feed The Alligators, we had doubts we would be fortunate enough to see one, but we were! It was a highlight for us all.

Embarkation went quickly and smoothly and I cannot stress enough how wonderful Carnival is with regards to customer service and friendliness. We felt well-cared for at all times. 

After a delicious (and fancy!) lunch, we found our room (the beds are sooo comfy!) and toured the ship. It is MASSIVE! We were exhausted from trying to find our bearings and every night we (Sophie, Paul, and I) found ourselves in bed by 9pm, sometimes even missing out on the towel animals. The boys made their way home much later, as they enjoyed the teen Club O2 (below) and the late night buffets.

Sophie was too shy to go to the activity club for her age group, so she had to hang out with her old fogie parents. Together we hit the hot tubs, comedy shows, gift shop, and played mini-golf.

We did find the motion of the boat bothersome at times. On the second night, the ship was very rocky due to high winds, and we all rushed through dinner and retreated to our beds by 7:30 pm, after I fed them all a Gravol. Things settled down the next day, thankfully, as we landed in the Bahamas for our first port of call.

Because we only had about six hours in the Bahamas, we decided not to spend any real money on an excursion. We followed the crowds along the main street and set our sights on the free beach, Junkanoo Beach. 

We sipped Bahama Mamas and ate the snacks I had packed, in between swimming in the beautiful water. We felt the Caribbean vibe from the music that was playing from the concession stands (and all of the gorgeous white sand and blue water!). Of all three ports we visited, it was also the only one where we were left unsolicited by beach vendors, which made it very relaxing. We headed back to the ship for a hearty lunch and anticipated the (amazing) dance show that is the highlight of the ship's entertainment line-up.

Our next port of call was St. Thomas. We boarded a bit of a sketchy/scary ride aboard an open-air shuttle that careened around the curves of the mountains a bit too quickly, and I instructed everyone just to look straight ahead. We arrived at Sapphire Beach, ate the lunch which we had ordered via room service from the ship, and swam the afternoon away. 


 Sophie had her hair braided by a friendly island vendor who also sold us both a pretty sun dress.


The next day, in St. Maarten, we headed out on the one "excursion" I had planned. It was more of a tour, but to us, it was the highlight of the trip. St. Maarten was our absolute favourite place that we visited, and it would be an absolute dream come true if we could ever return there. I cannot say enough good things about our tour, via Bernard's Tours, which I had found online a few days before our trip. It was a professional, well-organized, FUN tour on an air-conditioned, clean, mid-size tour bus. Our tour guide/driver went by the name "Sexy," and he passed out unlimited cold canned pop, beer, and the most potent rum punch I have ever tasted. He was funny, friendly, and knowledgeable and we discovered a lot about his beautiful island during our chats.

Our many destinations included a stop at a property that hosted lots of iguanas, a small beach where we were able to see sea urchins, star fish, etc., an approx. two hour stay at Orient Beach (which on one side is nudist...old, wrinkly saggy nudists...ugh!) where we ate lunch and jumped the most amazing waves. The water was sooo warm!!


Later, we stopped in Marigot, the French capital of St. Martin, where we ate delicious French pastries from a popular patisserie, Sarafina's. This was our view as we ate at a bench near the open air market:


We then headed off to Maho Beach, the small but beautiful beach that is best known for the jumbo airplanes that fly in just 20-30 feet overhead beach-goers heads (as they descend upon the runway of the Princess Julianna airport). That was definitely the most exciting part of our trip!


As you can imagine, the waves are incredible, and once I figured out to go far enough out so that I could ride the wave without being slammed into the sand and dragged back out (I may or may not have been tossed around like a crab while frantically tugging at my bathing suit top and bottoms to protect my modesty), I had a blast.

Maho Beach is a must-do if you visit St. Maarten. You will never forget it!
To see what I mean about this popular destination, check out this jumbo plane (Air France) landing:


 We took the scenic route back to the ship and marvelled at how gorgeous the island is. Seriously, can you beat this?

 Our ship, in front:

Back on The Dream, we spent the last two days swimming, having fun on the gigantic water slide, and basically eating like gluttons.


 The food was wonderful, the decor a bit garish and over-the-top glitz, the entertainment a bit cheeseball, and the service excellent. On our last night, we dressed up a bit for dinner and snapped some photos.


Verdict: We had an amazing time, and we totally get how people become hooked on vacationing. If we are ever fortunate to take another trip, it won't be on a cruise ship, but it will be somewhere hot and beautiful!

Cheers!

Sunday

Easter around our house...


 Happy Easter, everyone!


It is a quiet one in our house this year. With no guests to entertain, we are having a quiet meal.


Sophie decorated some eggs and a white chocolate treat on Good Friday and we even found some adorable egg sleeves (the ones you slip over eggs and then place in boiling water for a second to adhere. She loved this one of little cats that look like our kitten, Rosie, and couldn't resist taking a snap shot of her "holding" it.


This year, I found the most wonderful online Canadian source (A Bit Of Home.ca)  for English and Irish chocolate. I was thrilled to find my childhood favourite Flake bars (we called them Flakies) inside a Cadbury Easter egg. I was even more excited when I discovered they even sold Malteser/MaltEaster bunnies, which taste just like the real McCoy, little malted balls of perfection. 


(For those of you who like Whoppers, Maltesers are ridiculously better. I do not like Whoppers...too sweet....so just take my word for it that Maltesers are superior!)

As an Easter surprise, we awoke to blustery snow this morning. Luckily, I had planned our Easter egg hunt for indoors, using clues I had written down from last year's hunt. Everyone is enjoying a lazy day tucked up inside away from the cold.

Enjoy your own traditions this Easter, and count your blessings!

Cheers!

Thursday

The Blogging Buzz....



Well, because I get a few emails here and there asking for my advice on how to do a number of blog-related tasks, I thought I'd pop in to share the website of two of my favourite blogging  pros and friends. Sarah and Lyndsay of The Blog Guidebook are THE go-to resource for those of us who want to navigate the inner workings and design of our blog. 

From learning how to install social media icons (I just added mine this evening, using their tutorial!) to making your own blog button, adding a custom signature (see mine below), how to link Facebook to your blog, and more! I am only touching on a few of their tutorials and they also have a wonderful directory of blogs that you can add your blog listing to: a great way to find and connect with other bloggers!


Sarah and Lyndsay are so approachable and knowledgeable; but before you send them a question via email, be sure to check out their resource archives, search their tutorials, and their collection of blogging Tips and Tricks. Chances are, they have probably already addressed your question/design dilemma before!

Happy Blogging!

Tuesday

The Comforts of Home...and friends!

 (vintage kitchen at Memory Lane Heritage Village)

Today I feel like taking a trip down memory lane and introducing you to a special friend from my past who has recently started blogging, and in doing so, has filled me with sentiment for the early years of mothering and homemaking. Elizabeth, of My Frugal Farmhouse, was my best friend in the little village I lived in as a newly wed young woman. I met her at a play group I was invited to when my boys were just babies/toddlers. As we sipped cups of tea and quietly chatted (as our little ones made their acquaintances), I soon realized she was a kind, conscientious mother who shared a little of my germaphobia, my obsession with the proper use and installation of car seats, and a strong desire to feed my children only healthy, home-cooked meals. I was still in the blissful, idealistic young mum role, and threw myself into each and every aspect of parenting that I could. Elizabeth, a few years older than me and with a few more years of mothering under her belt, was a kindred spirit from whom I could seek advice, comfort, and companionship and we quickly bonded, much like our little boys.
 (me and my boys, 1997)

On long days, when the toil of being stay-at-home mothers with few to bounce our children off for respite (my family lived seven hours away, so I was IT), one of us would bundle up our children and inadvertently end up at the other's house where we would enjoy chatting to someone who didn't drool as they spoke or dissolve into tears of frustration when a favourite toy went missing. In the evenings, we chatted on the telephone as we washed our dishes (neither of us had a dishwasher) and shared recipes, gripes, laughs, and worries and felt a little less alone in the world (or at least I did). 

 (Callum, age 2)

It was Elizabeth who introduced me to the bread machine, which I still use today to make my family's favourites like pizza dough, French bread, Challah bread, regular loaves and rolls, and she also advised me to NOT bake the bread in the machine but, rather, place it in a parchment lined loaf pan and bale it in the oven. That way, you can fool everyone and they will think you made it from scratch! Hah!
 (some of Elizabeth's beautiful bread loaves)

Elizabeth is a wonderful baker, baking something (many things!) every day. I laughed to read on her blog the following piece of advice I had for her in my infinite twenty-something wisdom: "My friend Linda once told me when I was lamenting how I couldn't stay on top of my housework, 'it's all that baking you do, that's your downfall'. She was joking but she was so right!!" It is advice I still swear by. 

You can't do it all. I have a pretty consistently tidy house but I rarely bake! Personally, I think her kids were happier with a little mess in the kitchen but a solid supply of baked goodies, and I never got any compliments from my little boys on how tidy my house was!

Elizabeth is fairly new to blogging and her posts are from the heart, full of great money saving-homemaking and decorating tips, and just an enjoyable read for those of us who love our homes and taking care of our families. Please take a moment to stop by and welcome her and follow her blog (I know she will be thrilled by that!). 

And thank you Elizabeth for writing such a sweet post about me and our friendship  (you can read it here)